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Love, Loss, Anxiety and Grief

by Aya Hajime 2 Comments

Love between fantasy girl and lion. Cute armored warrior girl with hood and lion. Fantasy woman pinup 3d-art. Flowers and grass in the background. Daz Studio Iray image.

Love is not simple. As soon as there is love or an attachment, loss enters the picture. Rejecting loss or the pain of loss means rejecting love and the pain of love. They are one and the same.

Your Puny-Pathetic Depression is Not as Good as My Awesome Manly Depression

by Aya Hajime 5 Comments

A closed-heart and judgmental criticism leads to abandonment and depression. Sci-fi girl with light emitting hair screaming with robotic tentacles all around her. Sci-fi fantasy woman art. Daz Studio Iray image.

Depression combined with social comparisons can lead to envy, jealousy, shame, and a closed heart. Ultimately, we end up alone, feeling abandoned, hopeless, betrayed, and more depressed than ever.

Depression – The Terrible D-Word

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Otherworldly angel girl with wings and light in her cupped hands. Fantasy angel woman art. Daz Studio Iray image.

One of the most frustrating and depressing things about depression is that nobody knows what it really is and nobody knows how to “fix” it. This article is about my own experience with depression, and my own framework for understanding it.

Attractive Women Survey

by Aya Hajime 119 Comments

Long haired, attractive woman, wearing black, with two hands out inviting readers to participate in survey.

Different people have different definitions of what they consider to be attractive in women. Here are five key factors that affect physical attractiveness in women. Which women are the most attractive to you and to others? Come and find out.

Dream of Fire – The Meaning of Fire Dreams

by Aya Hajime 635 Comments

Fire Goddess turned to the right, flying Phoenix turned to the left. Both figures are back to back on a fiery background.

Fire is a powerful dream symbol. It can signify change, rejuvenation, and life, or it can kill and destroy. The meaning of our dream of fire will depend on our control of the dream fire, and more.

Attractive Men Survey – Which Men Do You Find Most Attractive?

by Aya Hajime 40 Comments

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Which physical characteristics do you find most attractive in a man? Here we consider 5 keys attributes that determine a man’s physical attractiveness. Visit and let us know which male attribute is most attractive to you!

How to Analyze Our Dream of Magic

by Aya Hajime 76 Comments

Dream wizard holding a staff on his left hand, with his right hand raised to cast a magic spell.

To analyze our dream about magic, we need to look at certain details such as the type of magic in our dream, who is performing the magic, the source of our magical powers, and more. We consider the different aspects of dream magic, and what it may mean for us.

Tall Women or Short Women – Which Do Men Prefer?

by Aya Hajime 301 Comments

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Do men like taller women or shorter women? Scientific studies say that men do indeed have a preference for shorter women. We consider these studies and why men like shorter women.

Finding the Meaning of Your Dream about Tattoos

by Aya Hajime 102 Comments

Dream of tattoo girls body close-up.

When we dream of tattoos, it symbolizes self-expression, permanence, creativity, or transformation. By attending to the visual appearance, position, frequency, and more of our dream tattoos, we can reveal the deeper meaning of our dream.

5 Scientific Tips on How to Be Attractive to Men

by Aya Hajime 36 Comments

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Attracting men is easier once you understand the science behind it. Here are five simple psychological laws of attraction that you can use to attract the man of your dreams.

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